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	<title>Key Management Skills</title>
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	<description>Provides practical online tools and techniques for managers and supervisors. Includes articles, blogs, workbooks, webinars, teleseminars and more</description>
	<pubDate>Wed, 16 Jul 2008 03:16:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>Employees Don&#8217;t Want a Superior!</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 16 Jul 2008 03:16:46 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Norma Smith Davis</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[Ken Blanchard, co-author of The One Minute Manager and now The One MInute Entrepreneur says the most important way that the workplace has changed over the years is this,&#8221;Your people want you to be their partner. They don&#8217;t want necessarily to be boss. They want you to think they bring something to the party, that [...]
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img src="http://www.keymanagementskills.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/07/arrogant-boss.jpg" hspace="5" vspace="5" width="175" height="135" align="right" /><span style="font-family: Helvetica; font-size: 15px; line-height: normal" class="Apple-style-span">Ken Blanchard, co-author of <em>The One Minute Manager</em> and now The <em>One MInute Entrepreneur </em>says the most important way that the workplace has changed over the years is this,&#8221;Your people want you to be their partner. They don&#8217;t want necessarily to be boss. They want you to think they bring something to the party, that you are on their side and you want them to succeed&#8221;. </span>
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<p style="font: normal normal normal 15px/normal Helvetica; margin: 0px">Blanchard was interviewed by WayneTurmel at the Cranky Middle Manager site. You can hear it here http://cmm.thepodcastnetwork.com/. This is a great site and Wayne is a funny man.  </p>
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<p style="font: normal normal normal 15px/normal Helvetica; margin: 0px">Blanchard pointed out that the old terminology for managers and employees is offensive to many employees. Titles like the <em>head </em>of the department and <em>hired hands</em>, <em>superior and subordinate</em> are demeaning. In fact my trusty dictionary defines subordinate as &#8220;of lower class or rank, inferior, submissive to authority&#8221;. A superior, on the other hand is defined as &#8220;one higher in quality or merit&#8221;.  Ouch!</p>
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<p style="font: normal normal normal 15px/normal Helvetica; margin: 0px">So how can we give our employees those three things Blanchard mentioned? </p>
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		<title>Management Skills:  How To Deal With Attitude Problems</title>
		<link>http://www.keymanagementskills.com/management-skills-how-to-deal-with-attitude-problems/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 05 Jul 2008 23:49:48 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Norma Smith Davis</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Communication]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Management Skills]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Performance Expectations]]></category>

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Many managers think they cannot measure attitude problems in their employees and therefore there is nothing that can be done. Wrong!  Once you have renamed those problems as professional behaviors, you can define them, measure them ,include them in job descriptions and even fire people with them!
 
You know the employees I mean. They may be [...]
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<p style="font: normal normal normal 15px/normal Helvetica; margin: 0px">Many managers think they cannot measure attitude problems in their employees and therefore there is nothing that can be done. Wrong!  Once you have renamed those problems as professional behaviors, you can define them, measure them ,include them in job descriptions and even fire people with them!</p>
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<p style="font: normal normal normal 15px/normal Helvetica; margin: 0px">You know the employees I mean. They may be technically capable and performing the specific skills that are measured on the job. They do the required amount of work; they make the required number of sales; they take the required number of calls. They may even be good with customers. But around the office or workplace they have attitude plus!  </p>
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<p style="font: normal normal normal 15px/normal Helvetica; margin: 0px">They are the office nay-sayers, cynics and negativists. Or they complain about everything. They criticize every management initiative; they go to the union with every little issue. They are right out of Dilbert and they are driving you crazy. You are getting complaints from other employees who are affected and infected by their lousy attitude. </p>
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<p style="font: normal normal normal 15px/normal Helvetica; margin: 0px">Here are the steps to take to get a better handle on this issue and give yourself some solid   definitions to work with. </p>
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<p style="font: normal normal normal 15px/normal Helvetica; margin: 0px"><strong>Step One: </strong></p>
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<p style="font: normal normal normal 15px/normal Helvetica; margin: 0px">Redefine the words <em>attitude problem</em> to <strong><em>professional behavior</em></strong>.  It&#8217;s perfectly reasonable </p>
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		<title>Customer Service: How To Project a Trustworthy Picture Over The Phone.</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 20 Jun 2008 21:34:50 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Norma Smith Davis</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Communication]]></category>

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If 55% of the impact of a communication is determined by the visual aspects, how do staff members who work with our customers on the phone build trust and confidence in our products and services?  Only 7% of the impact of their communication  is the actual words, the content or the verbal message. Yet that [...]
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<p style="font: normal normal normal 15px/normal Helvetica; margin: 0px">If 55% of the impact of a communication is determined by the visual aspects, how do staff members who work with our customers on the phone build trust and confidence in our products and services?  Only 7% of the impact of their communication  is the actual words, the content or the verbal message. Yet that is what we spend so much time carefully crafting!  </p>
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<p style="font: normal normal normal 15px/normal Helvetica; margin: 0px">For phone personnel that makes that 38% impact of voice quality very, very important. Voice quality includes tone, softness or loudness, accents, grammar, volume, tempo, rhythm, inflections&#8211;in other words how we say it.  These figures come from a study done in 1983 by Dr. Albert Mehrabian of UCLA.  </p>
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<p style="font: normal normal normal 15px/normal Helvetica; margin: 0px">It makes sense to spend some of our training time for </p>
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		<title>Are Men&#8217;s Ties Out? Do They Still Have A Purpose?</title>
		<link>http://www.keymanagementskills.com/are-mens-ties-out-do-they-still-have-a-purpose/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 19 Jun 2008 00:26:57 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Norma Smith Davis</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[According to a recent Gallop Poll only 6% of men wear a tie to work every day.  Sales of men&#8217;s ties have dropped to a record low of 677 million as opposed to 1.3 billion in 1995. This and other  facts about ties was the subject of an article in my local paper, The Press [...]
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<p style="font: normal normal normal 15px/normal Helvetica; margin: 0px"><strong>To Tie or Not To Tie!</strong></p>
<p style="font: normal normal normal 15px/normal Helvetica; margin: 0px">Not many years ago ties were required in most fine restaurants. Now you see men with baseball caps on backwards and even gang attire. The only men who seem to consistently wear a tie are funeral directors, talk show hosts, news anchors and lawyers when they are in court. And why do talk show hosts wear a suit and tie anyway?  I would laugh just as loud at Jay, David and Craig if they were wearing dress casual. Wouldn&#8217;t you? </p>
<p style="font: normal normal normal 15px/normal Helvetica; min-height: 18px; margin: 0px"> </p>
<p style="font: normal normal normal 15px/normal Helvetica; margin: 0px">On the other hand those comedians </p>
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		<title>How To Make Decisions That Stay Decided!</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 09 Jun 2008 20:27:33 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Norma Smith Davis</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Decision-Making]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Effective Meetings]]></category>

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 Does it seem to you that you revisit the same decisions over and over?  Do you make decisions only to have them fumble and die of apathy?  Having meetings that are as effective, tight and productive as a good girdle is great.  But if the decisions made at those meetings do not have buy-in from [...]
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<p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; font: normal normal normal 12px/normal Cambria"> Does it seem to you that you revisit the same decisions over and over?  Do you make decisions only to have them fumble and die of apathy?  Having meetings that are as effective, tight and productive as a good girdle is great.  But if the decisions made at those meetings do not have buy-in from everyone at the table, or are not formalized, the decisions may be sabotaged and rendered useless and toothless.  What are some signs that a decision is being undermined?  See if any of these sounds familiar: </p>
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<li style="font: normal normal normal 12px/normal Cambria; margin: 0px">1.  The supervisor or manager goes back to his department or unit and announces the decision that has been made, rolls       his/her eyes and says, “ I didn’t agree with this decision, but I got out voted”.  Well there’s a resounding endorsement!  How studious do you think that manager will be at implementing the decision?</li>
<li style="font: normal normal normal 12px/normal Cambria; margin: 0px">2.  The supervisor/manager fails to even report the decision to the appropriate people!  Weeks later his/her staff hear about it from other departments.  </li>
<li style="font: normal normal normal 12px/normal Cambria; margin: 0px">As soon as the decision is made some of the participants involved in the meeting and the decisions that were made, start buzzing about the decision, criticizing it, complaining about it, saying how it won’t work<span style="font: normal normal normal 12px/normal 'Times New Roman'">.</span> This creates doubt in the ones who did agree wholeheartedly.  People don’t start implementing the decision because it is obvious it isn’t going anywhere.  And who can blame them? </li>
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<p style="font: normal normal normal 12px/normal 'Times New Roman'; min-height: 15px; margin: 0px"> </p>
<p style="font: normal normal normal 12px/normal Cambria; margin: 0px">Here’s one way to get commitment about a decision.  Ask each person, individually, to </p>
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		<title>Leadership Lessons From The Newspaper, Part 2</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 29 May 2008 01:08:19 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Norma Smith Davis</dc:creator>
		
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Managers and supervisors can take note on how hospitals are reducing their malpractice lawsuits by counseling their doctors to apologize when they make a mistake. 
Yes it&#8217;s true there is a lot to be learned about excellent leadership, communication and collaboration from the newspaper.  Part one of this article spoke about a casino tribal leader who [...]
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<p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; font: normal normal normal 15px/normal Cambria"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: 13px; white-space: pre; -webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 2px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 2px"></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Cambria; font-size: 15px; line-height: normal">Managers and supervisors can take note on how hospitals are reducing their malpractice lawsuits by counseling their doctors to apologize when they make a mistake. </span></p>
<p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; font: normal normal normal 15px/normal Cambria">Yes it&#8217;s true there is a lot to be learned about excellent leadership, communication and collaboration from the newspaper.  Part one of this article spoke about a casino tribal leader who overcame his predecessor&#8217;s bad leadership and communication to win over a community that had been dead set against any expansion of the casino in the wine country.  Here&#8217;s a story, in the same newspaper (The Press Democrat, Santa Rosa, California) on the same day that further illustrates the points.  </p>
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<p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; font: normal normal normal 15px/normal Cambria">When Dr. Tapas K. Das Gupta, chairman of surgical oncology at University of Illinois Medical Center discovered that he had removed tissue from the wrong rib of his patient, he did something that might have made some hospital lawyers cringe; he apologized to the patient!  He recalled saying, &#8220;After all these years, I cannot give you any excuse whatsoever.  It is just one of those things that occurred.  I have to some extent harmed you&#8221;.   </p>
<p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; font: normal normal normal 15px/normal Cambria">Wow, for decades malpractice lawyers have been advising doctors to </p>
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		<title>Leadership Lessons From the Newspaper</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 19 May 2008 20:18:43 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Norma Smith Davis</dc:creator>
		
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My local paper afforded me an opportunity to share some thoughts on the power of good communication and collaboration. 
Near my home in the wine country of Northern California there has been a decade long battle between an Indian tribe that wanted to put in a casino on their land and the neighbors who enjoy one [...]
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<p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; font: normal normal normal 14px/normal Cambria">Near my home in the wine country of Northern California there has been a decade long battle between an Indian tribe that wanted to put in a casino on their land and the neighbors who enjoy one of the most scenic and wealthy vineyard and winery regions in the world.  The tribe&#8217;s rather combative and secretive tribal leader and local government, environmental groups and wine industry associations duked it out for years.</p>
<p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; font: normal normal normal 14px/normal Cambria">When the casino parking structure suddenly went up, as if over night, the tribal leader finally admitted they had been &#8220;less than truthful&#8221;.  Not a good way to establish good relationships.  Back and forth it went over zoning, land use, access, fire and police protection, liquor permits and more.  </p>
<p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; font: normal normal normal 14px/normal Cambria">Then something very different happened. </p>
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		<title>7 Things You Can Do Instead of Having a Meeting!</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 14 May 2008 19:05:22 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Norma Smith Davis</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[For many people meetings are the bane of their workday. They dread them, have no interest in the subject, can’t figure out why they have to be there, don’t know why the meeting is being called, and think meetings are generally a waste of time. 
For these and other reasons people who dislike meetings, often arrive [...]
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<p class="MsoNormal">For these and other reasons people who dislike meetings, often arrive late, bring other work or the newspaper with them, sigh deeply during key discussion points, speak sarcastically, or exhibit other disruptive and dismissive behaviors that hamper the effectiveness of the meeting.</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">Here are 7 things you can do instead of holding a meeting or to reduce the number of meetings you do hold. <span> </span></p>
<p style="margin-top: 0in; margin-right: 0in; margin-left: 0.5in; margin-bottom: 0.0001pt; text-indent: -0.25in" class="MsoNormal"><span><span>1.<span style="font: normal normal normal 7pt/normal 'Times New Roman'">     </span></span></span>Assign the decision, project or recommendation to a small group who may be able to work faster and more effectively without a big group. Too many meetings get bogged down by your local contrarian, negativist, or other meeting killers.</p>
<p style="margin-top: 0in; margin-right: 0in; margin-left: 0.5in; margin-bottom: 0.0001pt; text-indent: -0.25in" class="MsoNormal"><span><span>2.<span style="font: normal normal normal 7pt/normal 'Times New Roman'">     </span></span></span>Hold a conference call or use Go To Meeting or other conference services.<span>  </span></p>
<p style="margin-top: 0in; margin-right: 0in; margin-left: 0.5in; margin-bottom: 0.0001pt; text-indent: -0.25in" class="MsoNormal"><span><span>3.<span style="font: normal normal normal 7pt/normal 'Times New Roman'">     </span></span></span>Send out a </p>
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		<title>Delegation:  Why Don&#8217;t We Do It?</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 25 Apr 2008 21:32:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Norma Smith Davis</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[We all know we should. Successful managers and supervisors do it.  Results-oriented managers do it!  The people who get promoted do it.  Why don&#8217;t you? 
There are a lot of reasons not to delegate, but I have found in my years of consulting that FEAR is the big issue. Oh you can soften it and call it concerns [...]
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<p style="font: normal normal normal 12px/normal Helvetica; margin: 0px">There are a lot of reasons not to delegate, but I have found in my years of consulting that FEAR is the big issue. Oh you can soften it and call it concerns or worry, but it&#8217;s fear and it holds you back. Let&#8217;s take a look at some of the reasons (excuses) we give for not delegating. </p>
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<li style="font: normal normal normal 12px/normal Helvetica; margin: 0px">They won&#8217;t do it right and I will have to do it over. <img src="http://keymanagementskills.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/04/2-women-next-to-each-other.jpg" hspace="5" vspace="5" width="193" height="160" align="right" /></li>
<li style="font: normal normal normal 12px/normal Helvetica; margin: 0px">They won&#8217;t do it right and I will get blamed! </li>
<li style="font: normal normal normal 12px/normal Helvetica; margin: 0px">No one knows enough to do it but me.  </li>
<li style="font: normal normal normal 12px/normal Helvetica; margin: 0px">I can&#8217;t shove my work off on someone else. </li>
<li style="font: normal normal normal 12px/normal Helvetica; margin: 0px">If I give my work to the staff why will I be needed?</li>
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<p style="font: normal normal normal 12px/normal Helvetica; margin: 0px">A closer look at these reasons (excuses) reveals that they are all fear-based. It may be mild like a worry, moderate as in concerned. or strong as in fearful.  Tell us what your reasons are in the comments section below. </p>
<p style="font: normal normal normal 12px/normal Helvetica; margin: 0px"> </p>
<p style="font: normal normal normal 12px/normal Helvetica; margin: 0px">Here is a way to check out those fears.  For each fear ask yourself: </p>
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<li style="font: normal normal normal 12px/normal Helvetica; margin: 0px">Is this worry/fear realistic? </li>
<li style="font: normal normal normal 12px/normal Helvetica; margin: 0px">Is it really, truly realistic? </li>
<li style="font: normal normal normal 12px/normal Helvetica; margin: 0px">What is one thing I would like to delegate? </li>
<li style="font: normal normal normal 12px/normal Helvetica; margin: 0px">What could I do to overcome this worry or barrier to delegating? </li>
<li style="font: normal normal normal 12px/normal Helvetica; margin: 0px">What could I accomplish if I were relieved of some of these tasks?</li>
<li style="font: normal normal normal 12px/normal Helvetica; margin: 0px">Which tasks will I delegate and to whom?</li>
<li style="font: normal normal normal 12px/normal Helvetica; margin: 0px">Create an action plan </li>
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<p style="font: normal normal normal 12px/normal Helvetica; margin: 0px">For more help, discussion, and templates for delegating go to the resources section on the left side of this blog and click on the mini-workbook,&#8221;Delegation, Start Doing It Today&#8221; .  </p>
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<p style="font: normal normal normal 12px/normal Helvetica; margin: 0px">What are your reasons for not delegating.  Please tell me in the comments section what your legitimate and illegitimate reasons for not delegating are.  I will assemble them into themes and get back to you on this blog.  Thanks.  <span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space: pre">	</span></p>
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		<title>Management Skills: Engage Your People</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 22 Apr 2008 22:50:46 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Norma Smith Davis</dc:creator>
		
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Organizations who have fully engaged employees have a much better bottom line than those whose employees are disenchanted. Intuitively we have always known this but a  2007 Towers and Perrin study of companies worldwide confirms it. Companies will earn more money if their employees are engaged, challenged and empowered. What does engaged mean?  It means [...]
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<p style="font: normal normal normal 14px/normal Helvetica; margin: 0px">Organizations who have fully engaged employees have a much better bottom line than those whose employees are disenchanted. Intuitively we have always known this but a  2007 Towers and Perrin study of companies worldwide confirms it. Companies will earn more money if their employees are engaged, challenged and empowered. What does engaged mean?  It means that employees are willing and anxious to give more of their discretionary efforts to their work. They are connected to their organization emotionally, know how to add value and are willing to do so. Other facts from the study include:</p>
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<p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 18px; text-indent: -18px; font: normal normal normal 14px/normal Helvetica">•   Just 21% of the worldwide work force is fully engaged. So nearly 80% of people do not contribute fully and are costing the employer money in terms of productivity, effectiveness, customer service and more. But in America the percentage of engaged workers is 29% and 28% are disengaged or disenchanted.  In Mexico those numbers are 54% and 16%, in Japan the numbers sag to a whopping 3% engaged and 72% disengaged or disenchanted!  </p>
<p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 18px; text-indent: -18px; font: normal normal normal 14px/normal Helvetica"> </p>
<p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 18px; text-indent: -18px; font: normal normal normal 14px/normal Helvetica">•  The organization has a big impact on whether or not employees are engaged.  The notion that employees are just “free agents” </p>
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