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	<title>Key Management Skills</title>
	<link>http://www.keymanagementskills.com</link>
	<description>Provides practical online tools and techniques for managers and supervisors. Includes articles, blogs, workbooks, webinars, teleseminars and more</description>
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		<title>Human Resource Management:  Where Do Your Biases Lie?</title>
		<link>http://www.keymanagementskills.com/human-resource-management-where-do-your-biases-lie/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 12 Nov 2008 03:52:08 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Norma Smith Davis</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Communication]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Management Skills]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[diversity]]></category>

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Since we have just elected our first black president in the US this may be a good time to recommend a site call Project Implicit, a website with live demonstration tests to measure a person&#8217;s biases, preferences and possibly their prejudices in areas such as race, gender religion skin tone, weight, disability, sexuality and age [...]
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<p style="font: normal normal normal 14px/normal Helvetica; margin: 0px">Since we have just elected our first black president in the US this may be a good time to recommend a site call Project Implicit, a website with live demonstration tests to measure a person&#8217;s biases, preferences and possibly their prejudices in areas such as race, gender religion skin tone, weight, disability, sexuality and age and more.  </p>
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<p style="font: normal normal normal 14px/normal Helvetica; margin: 0px">Believe me it is fascinating!  I was in for some surprises! You take the tests at a fairly rapid speed so that your first impressions are used.  Each test takes about 10 minutes. When you finish they give you information about your responses, possible interpretations and how you measure up against others who have taken the test!  Plus you have become part of their study though your identity is protected.  </p>
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<p style="font: normal normal normal 14px/normal Helvetica; margin: 0px">The scientists involved in the test funded by the National Science Foundation, National Institute of Mental Health, Indiana University and Rudd Institute are aware that human beings don&#8217;t always say what they mean or what is true. From their website: &#8221; The unwilling/unable distinction is like the difference between purposely hiding something from others and unconsciously hiding  something from yourself. The Implicit Association Test  (IAT) makes it possible to penetrate both of these types of hiding. The IAT measures implicit attitudes and beliefs that people are either unwilling or unable to reeport.&#8221;</p>
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<p style="font: normal normal normal 14px/normal Helvetica; margin: 0px">Some diversity trainers suggest the site to their participants as pre or post work. I personally would be cautious about using it as a mandatory requirement unless you were positive it could not be misused. See the site for the possible misuses the scientists suggested.  However the group does work with organizations using the tests.  </p>
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<p style="font: normal normal normal 14px/normal Helvetica; margin: 0px">PLEASE return to this blog and let me know what your impressions were. Did you find the test valuable, surprising, useless? What did you learn about yourself that you didn&#8217;t know or didn&#8217;t suspect. Would you use it in your work?  Here is the site.  http://implicit.harvard.edu/implicit/demo. </p>
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<p style="font: normal normal normal 14px/normal Helvetica; margin: 0px">If you would like to receive notice when I post a new blog just fill in &#8220;Get New Posts&#8221; area to the right of this blog. You can do it by email  or click the RSS (orange) button.  You will get each new blog&#8230;hot off the press! </p>
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		<title>Workplace Stress + The Economy = Loss of Productivity</title>
		<link>http://www.keymanagementskills.com/workplace-stress-the-economy-loss-of-productivity/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 20 Oct 2008 22:44:50 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Norma Smith Davis</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Management Skills]]></category>

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		<category><![CDATA[economic anxiety]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[leadership]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[productivity]]></category>

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Did you know that 85% of employees feel some economic anxiety in the workplace.  29% experience severe or high anxiety.  This according to an ongoing survey conducted by Elliott Masie&#8217;s Learning Trends.  
 
The question asked of 1441 learning professionals in corporations was, &#8220;What is the level of economic anxiety in your workplace?&#8221;.  Only 15% [...]
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<p style="font: normal normal normal 14px/normal Helvetica; margin: 0px">The question asked of 1441 learning professionals in corporations was, &#8220;What is the level of economic anxiety in your workplace?&#8221;.  Only 15% responded low or no anxiety.  </p>
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<p style="font: normal normal normal 14px/normal Helvetica; margin: 0px">The next questions was, &#8220;What, if any, actions has your organization&#8217;s leadership taken to respond to the economic anxiety in the workplace?&#8221;. The results: </p>
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<li style="font: normal normal normal 14px/normal Helvetica; margin: 0px">21% held briefings about the organizations\&#8217;s economic health </li>
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<li style="font: normal normal normal 14px/normal Helvetica; margin: 0px">13% held briefings about the economic crisis </li>
<li style="font: normal normal normal 14px/normal Helvetica; margin: 0px">13% said the manager had conversations with employees about economic anxiety </li>
<li style="font: normal normal normal 14px/normal Helvetica; margin: 0px">7% had workshops dealing with 401K management </li>
<li style="font: normal normal normal 14px/normal Helvetica; margin: 0px">46% had had no actions as of that day </li>
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<p style="font: normal normal normal 14px/normal Helvetica; margin: 0px">So here are my questions: </p>
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<li style="font: normal normal normal 14px/normal Helvetica; margin: 0px">What is the level of your employees&#8217; anxiety? </li>
<li style="font: normal normal normal 14px/normal Helvetica; margin: 0px">What is the level of your own anxiety? </li>
<li style="font: normal normal normal 14px/normal Helvetica; margin: 0px">What has your organization done? </li>
<li style="font: normal normal normal 14px/normal Helvetica; margin: 0px">What could you do with your own employees? </li>
<li style="font: normal normal normal 14px/normal Helvetica; margin: 0px">What do you notice in terms of loss of productivity&#8230;yours and your staffs&#8217;. </li>
<li style="font: normal normal normal 14px/normal Helvetica; margin: 0px">Leave your comments below.  </li>
<li style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; font: normal normal normal 13px/normal Cambria">If you would like to receive <strong><em>21 Great Ideas For Rewarding Your Employees That are Free or Low Cost</em></strong> just fill in your first name and email in the box on the right of this blog page.  I will email them to you at absolutely no charge to you. Watch your inbox for an email.   To subscribe to this blog go to the right hand side of this blog under &#8220;Get New Post Updates&#8221; and enter your email address. Or go to www.KeyManagmentSkills.com  </li>
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		<title>The Dirty Little Secrets About Training</title>
		<link>http://www.keymanagementskills.com/the-dirty-little-secrets-about-training/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 05 Oct 2008 02:59:14 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Norma Smith Davis</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Communication]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Management Skills]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Performance Expectations]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Training, Coaching]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[attitude problems]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[difficult employees]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[leadership development]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[training]]></category>

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I am often asked if training really works.  The answer is yes and no! Here&#8217;s why. 
 
1.  Too often unless a training is made mandatory, those who need it the most will choose not to attend!
 
2. .  75% of the learning goes on after the employee comes back to the job. Said another way&#8211;employees will forget [...]
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<p style="font: normal normal normal 12px/normal Helvetica; margin: 0px">1.  Too often unless a training is made mandatory, those who need it the most will choose not to attend!</p>
<p style="font: normal normal normal 12px/normal Helvetica; min-height: 14px; margin: 0px"> </p>
<p style="font: normal normal normal 12px/normal Helvetica; margin: 0px">2. .  75% of the learning goes on after the employee comes back to the job. Said another way&#8211;employees will forget most of what they learned unless it is reinforced on the job after they come back from training.  </p>
<p style="font: normal normal normal 12px/normal Helvetica; min-height: 14px; margin: 0px"> </p>
<p style="font: normal normal normal 12px/normal Helvetica; margin: 0px">3.  Too often people are sent off to training in the hopes that they will get &#8220;fixed&#8221; when in fact if the training doesn&#8217;t incorporate good adult learning principles and isn&#8217;t seen as relevant from the trainees point of view it will fail.  </p>
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<p style="font: normal normal normal 12px/normal Helvetica; margin: 0px">4.  Employees are sometimes sent to training for specific skills when the real problem is attitude&#8230;ahem&#8230;I mean lack of professional behavior problems.  </p>
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<p style="font: normal normal normal 12px/normal Helvetica; margin: 0px">So what can you as a manager do to help ensure that the training you spend your money on will be effective? </p>
<p> <a href="http://www.keymanagementskills.com/the-dirty-little-secrets-about-training/#more-97"  class="more-link">(more&#8230;)</a></p>
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		<title>A New Twist On Thank You!</title>
		<link>http://www.keymanagementskills.com/a-new-twist-on-thank-you/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 29 Sep 2008 00:47:42 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Norma Smith Davis</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Communication]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Management Skills]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Rewards, Recognition]]></category>

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		<category><![CDATA[employee rewards]]></category>

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Those of you who have requested my 21 Great Ideas For Rewarding Your Employees That Are Low or No Cost know that the first one on the list is &#8220;say thank you&#8221;.  It is the greatest motivator of all!  Today, however,  when my  weekly email from TED (Technology, Entertainment and Design) arrived I heard of [...]
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<p style="font: normal normal normal 15px/normal Helvetica; margin: 0px">Those of you who have requested my 21 Great Ideas For Rewarding Your Employees That Are Low or No Cost know that the first one on the list is &#8220;say thank you&#8221;.  It is the greatest motivator of all!  Today, however,  when my  weekly email from TED (Technology, Entertainment and Design) arrived I heard of a new twist on the idea.  </p>
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<p style="font: normal normal normal 15px/normal Helvetica; margin: 0px">Each week TED sends thoughtful and thought provoking videos from their annual conference. In this week&#8217;s issue came a 3 minute video by Laura Trice with a simple idea&#8230;ask for what you need to be praised for!  </p>
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<p style="font: normal normal normal 15px/normal Helvetica; margin: 0px">As she appropriately points out there are risks to doing this, but the rewards can be bountiful. After all, you will make yourself vulnerable, people will know where you are insecure. They could use it against you, but they could give you what we need!  And let&#8217;s be clear, the greatest need we have as human beings is to be heard, understood and accepted for who we are. Yet haven&#8217;t we all grown up with the idea that it is better to praise than be praised. Wrong!  It is better to be both &#8220;praisor&#8221; and &#8220;praisee&#8221;!  </p>
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<p style="font: normal normal normal 15px/normal Helvetica; margin: 0px">As I thought about how this would work for managers and supervisors in the workplace several things came to mind: </p>
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<p style="font: normal normal normal 15px/normal Helvetica; margin: 0px"> 1.  Think about the people you directly supervise. What is an area you are pretty sure each of them feels insecure about.  Praise them for what they do right in that area. </p>
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<p style="font: normal normal normal 15px/normal Helvetica; margin: 0px">2.  Listen to the way your employees dismiss or trash themselves. Praise them in those areas whenever possible. </p>
<p style="font: normal normal normal 15px/normal Helvetica; min-height: 18px; margin: 0px"> </p>
<p style="font: normal normal normal 15px/normal Helvetica; margin: 0px">3.  Watch for moments when you thank someone and the person says something self-diminishing like, &#8220;Oh it wasn&#8217;t a big deal&#8221;, or &#8220;It took me long enough!&#8221;, or &#8220;Just doing my job&#8221;. Make them stop for a moment while you say thanks again and add something specific about how much it means to you or to the team or how lucky we are to have someone does the job so well. This will help them to take the praise in, rather than dismissing it.  </p>
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<p style="font: normal normal normal 15px/normal Helvetica; margin: 0px">Here is a link to the 3-minute video.  If you can think of other ideas on how to use this idea please come back and post a comment on this blog.   </p>
<p style="font: normal normal normal 15px/normal Helvetica; margin: 0px">http://www.ted.com/index.php/talks/laura_trice_suggests_we_all_say_thank_you.html.  If the link doesn&#8217;t work, go to TED.com and search for Laura Trice. </p>
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<p style="font: normal normal normal 15px/normal Helvetica; margin: 0px"> If you haven&#8217;t asked for a free copy of 21 Great Ideas For Rewarding Employees That Are No or Low cost you can do so to the right on this page or go to www.keymanagementskills.com.) </p>
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		<title>Communication:  The Ask, Don&#8217;t Tell Method!</title>
		<link>http://www.keymanagementskills.com/communication-the-ask-dont-tell-method/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 04 Sep 2008 01:02:46 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Norma Smith Davis</dc:creator>
		
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		<category><![CDATA[teamwork]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[There are two communication tools that, for me, stand out above all others.  One is to shut up!  No seriously, less talk and more listening is so often the key to understanding.  But today I want to talk about the number two skill&#8230;asking questions.  As a manager we are paid to answer questions and tell [...]
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img src="http://www.keymanagementskills.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/09/side-by-side-conference.jpg" align="right" height="105" width="160" vspace="5" hspace="5" /><span style="font-family: Helvetica; font-size: 12px; line-height: normal" class="Apple-style-span">There are two communication tools that, for me, stand out above all others.  One is to shut up!  No seriously, less talk and more listening is so often the key to understanding.  But today I want to talk about the number two skill&#8230;asking questions.  As a manager we are paid to answer questions and tell people what to do and how to do it&#8230;right?  Well, let&#8217;s just say yes and there&#8217;s more to the story.  </span>
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<p style="font: normal normal normal 12px/normal Helvetica; margin: 0px">Our tendency as managers is to focus on efficiency and results, so we often tell people what to do, and how to do it and leave it at that. However there is an opportunity to have a deeper conversation with our employees&#8230;one that evokes their wisdom. In doing this we discover that we don&#8217;t have to be the source of all the improvements, knowledge and answers. When we have an employee with a complaint, a negative attitude or even a hesitancy about an issue, an open ended question can reap great rewards.    </p>
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<p style="font: normal normal normal 12px/normal Helvetica; margin: 0px"><span style="font-weight: bold" class="Apple-style-span">Open Questions Open Doors!</span></p>
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<p style="font: normal normal normal 12px/normal Helvetica; margin: 0px">Here are some questions that will help you open the doors to communicating in a more significant and productive manner.  </p>
<p style="font: normal normal normal 12px/normal Helvetica; margin: 0px">1. What is your take on this issue?  </p>
<p style="font: normal normal normal 12px/normal Helvetica; margin: 0px">2.  How would you like it to be or happen? </p>
<p style="font: normal normal normal 12px/normal Helvetica; margin: 0px">3.  What have you already tried? </p>
<p style="font: normal normal normal 12px/normal Helvetica; margin: 0px">4.  If you were me what would you do </p>
<p style="font: normal normal normal 12px/normal Helvetica; margin: 0px">5.  Can you recall another situation that brings some light to this issue? </p>
<p style="font: normal normal normal 12px/normal Helvetica; margin: 0px">6.  What is the result we are going for here, and what is the simplest way to get there?  </p>
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<p style="font: normal normal normal 12px/normal Helvetica; margin: 0px">Questions, and thoughtful discussion about workplace issues energizes you and your employees,leads to fresh ideas and gets teamwork going in a way that includes the whole team. </p>
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		<title>Men And Women As Leaders: New Research</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 29 Aug 2008 17:08:53 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Norma Smith Davis</dc:creator>
		
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The folks at the Pew Research Center do some very interesting research. The latest I have seen is a study on people&#8217;s perception of women and men as leaders. More than 2,200 men and women were asked to rate men and women on these leadership traits in the order of importance:  honest, intelligent, hard working, [...]
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<p style="font: normal normal normal 14px/normal Helvetica; margin: 0px">The folks at the Pew Research Center do some very interesting research. The latest I have seen is a study on people&#8217;s perception of women and men as leaders. More than 2,200 men and women were asked to rate men and women on these leadership traits in the order of importance:  honest, intelligent, hard working, decisive, ambitious, compassionate, outgoing and creative.  </p>
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<p style="font: normal normal normal 14px/normal Helvetica; margin: 0px">Both men and women agree that women are more honest, intelligent, compassionate, outgoing and creative than men. The respondents agreed that men and women were equal on being hardworking and ambitious. The one area where men were seen to have higher abilities is decisiveness.  That&#8217;s 5 to 1 with two ties and it is equally seen to be true by both men and women! </p>
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<p style="font: normal normal normal 14px/normal Helvetica; margin: 0px">Sixty nine percent thought that men and women made equally strong leaders. However of the remaining people only 6% thought women were stronger leaders and 21 percent thought men to be the stronger.</p>
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<p style="font: normal normal normal 14px/normal Helvetica; margin: 0px">The paradox for me and for the researchers is that these perceptions have not translated into higher numbers of women in the top political, and corporate arenas.  What do you think?   Why haven&#8217;t perceptions translated to actions in your opinion. Please leave your comments below. </p>
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		<title>Employees Don&#8217;t Want a Superior!</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 16 Jul 2008 03:16:46 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Norma Smith Davis</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[Ken Blanchard, co-author of The One Minute Manager and now The One MInute Entrepreneur says the most important way that the workplace has changed over the years is this,&#8221;Your people want you to be their partner. They don&#8217;t want necessarily to be boss. They want you to think they bring something to the party, that [...]
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Helvetica; font-size: 15px; line-height: normal">Ken Blanchard, co-author of <em>The One Minute Manager</em> and now The <em>One MInute Entrepreneur </em>says the most important way that the workplace has changed over the years is this,&#8221;Your people want you to be their partner. They don&#8217;t want necessarily to be boss. They want you to think they bring something to the party, that you are on their side and you want them to succeed&#8221;. </span>
<p style="font: normal normal normal 15px/normal Helvetica; min-height: 18px; margin: 0px"> Blanchard was interviewed by WayneTurmel at the Cranky Middle Manager site. You can hear it here http://cmm.thepodcastnetwork.com/. This is a great site and Wayne is a funny man.  </p>
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<p style="font: normal normal normal 15px/normal Helvetica; margin: 0px">Blanchard pointed out that the old terminology for managers and employees is offensive to many employees. Titles like the <em>head </em>of the department and <em>hired hands</em>, <em>superior and subordinate</em> are demeaning. In fact my trusty dictionary defines subordinate as &#8220;of lower class or rank, inferior, submissive to authority&#8221;. A superior, on the other hand is defined as &#8220;one higher in quality or merit&#8221;.  Ouch!</p>
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<p style="font: normal normal normal 15px/normal Helvetica; margin: 0px">So how can we give our employees those three things Blanchard mentioned? </p>
<p><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Helvetica; font-size: 15px; font-weight: bold; line-height: normal">That you think they bring something to the party</span>
<p style="font: normal normal normal 15px/normal Helvetica; margin: 0px">In other words that you think they are valuable.  Don&#8217;t we all want to be valued? One way to reinforce their value is to thank them often; to tell them how much they contribute to the success of the team. Of course saying thank you is not only the number one motivator of employees, but the most often requested reward.  Check out the 21 No or Low Cost Rewards for Employees on the right side of the blog.  It&#8217;s fre*e.  </p>
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<p style="font: normal normal normal 15px/normal Helvetica; margin: 0px"><strong>They want to know you are on their side</strong></p>
<p style="font: normal normal normal 15px/normal Helvetica; margin: 0px">How often have you inquired into your employees satisfaction with the work, or asked about their family, or asked what one thing they need to be more effective or less overwhelmed? </p>
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<p style="font: normal normal normal 15px/normal Helvetica; margin: 0px"><strong>That you want them to succeed</strong></p>
<p style="font: normal normal normal 15px/normal Helvetica; margin: 0px">We can demonstrate this by offering additional training and development, providing them the opportunity to do more interesting or more diverse work.  We might even suggest they apply for a promotion!  </p>
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<p style="font: normal normal normal 15px/normal Helvetica; margin: 0px">Please give us your suggestions for ways to fulfill these three things.  Or tell us if you think it&#8217;s all bunk!  Is it different for different generations on your staff?  </p>
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		<title>Management Skills:  How To Deal With Attitude Problems</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 05 Jul 2008 23:49:48 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Norma Smith Davis</dc:creator>
		
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Many managers think they cannot measure attitude problems in their employees and therefore there is nothing that can be done. Wrong!  Once you have renamed those problems as professional behaviors, you can define them, measure them ,include them in job descriptions and even fire people with them!
 
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<p style="font: normal normal normal 15px/normal Helvetica; margin: 0px">You know the employees I mean. They may be technically capable and performing the specific skills that are measured on the job. They do the required amount of work; they make the required number of sales; they take the required number of calls. They may even be good with customers. But around the office or workplace they have attitude plus!  </p>
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<p style="font: normal normal normal 15px/normal Helvetica; margin: 0px">They are the office nay-sayers, cynics and negativists. Or they complain about everything. They criticize every management initiative; they go to the union with every little issue. They are right out of Dilbert and they are driving you crazy. You are getting complaints from other employees who are affected and infected by their lousy attitude. </p>
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<p style="font: normal normal normal 15px/normal Helvetica; margin: 0px">Here are the steps to take to get a better handle on this issue and give yourself some solid   definitions to work with. </p>
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<p style="font: normal normal normal 15px/normal Helvetica; margin: 0px">Redefine the words <em>attitude problem</em> to <strong><em>professional behavior</em></strong>.  It&#8217;s perfectly reasonable </p>
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		<title>Customer Service: How To Project a Trustworthy Picture Over The Phone.</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 20 Jun 2008 21:34:50 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Norma Smith Davis</dc:creator>
		
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If 55% of the impact of a communication is determined by the visual aspects, how do staff members who work with our customers on the phone build trust and confidence in our products and services?  Only 7% of the impact of their communication  is the actual words, the content or the verbal message. Yet that [...]
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<p style="font: normal normal normal 15px/normal Helvetica; margin: 0px">For phone personnel that makes that 38% impact of voice quality very, very important. Voice quality includes tone, softness or loudness, accents, grammar, volume, tempo, rhythm, inflections&#8211;in other words how we say it.  These figures come from a study done in 1983 by Dr. Albert Mehrabian of UCLA.  </p>
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<p style="font: normal normal normal 15px/normal Helvetica; margin: 0px">It makes sense to spend some of our training time for </p>
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		<title>Are Men&#8217;s Ties Out? Do They Still Have A Purpose?</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 19 Jun 2008 00:26:57 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Norma Smith Davis</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[According to a recent Gallop Poll only 6% of men wear a tie to work every day.  Sales of men&#8217;s ties have dropped to a record low of 677 million as opposed to 1.3 billion in 1995. This and other  facts about ties was the subject of an article in my local paper, The Press [...]
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span style="font-family: Helvetica; font-size: 12px; line-height: normal" class="Apple-style-span">According to a recent Gallop Poll only 6% of men wear a tie to work every day.  Sales of men&#8217;s ties have dropped to a record low of 677 million as opposed to 1.3 billion in 1995. This and other  facts about ties was the subject of an article in my local paper, The Press Democrat. </span>
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<p style="font: normal normal normal 15px/normal Helvetica; margin: 0px"><strong>To Tie or Not To Tie!</strong></p>
<p style="font: normal normal normal 15px/normal Helvetica; margin: 0px">Not many years ago ties were required in most fine restaurants. Now you see men with baseball caps on backwards and even gang attire. The only men who seem to consistently wear a tie are funeral directors, talk show hosts, news anchors and lawyers when they are in court. And why do talk show hosts wear a suit and tie anyway?  I would laugh just as loud at Jay, David and Craig if they were wearing dress casual. Wouldn&#8217;t you? </p>
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<p style="font: normal normal normal 15px/normal Helvetica; margin: 0px">On the other hand those comedians who have risen to the nightly spots on the major networks may want to distinguish themselves from the  grungy comics that appear only sporadically on Comedy Central.  </p>
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<p style="font: normal normal normal 15px/normal Helvetica; margin: 0px">And the Geek Squad employees of Best Buy are required to wear a thin tie, to convey a &#8220;seriousness of purpose and sense of professionalism&#8221; according to a statement released by the company this week in response to queries from the newspaper.  </p>
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<p style="font: normal normal normal 15px/normal Helvetica; margin: 0px"><strong>So what does a suit and tie say in this day and age?</strong>  </p>
<p style="font: normal normal normal 15px/normal Helvetica; margin: 0px">Do you want to buy stocks and bonds from a man in cut offs? How about a golf shirt?   Is there still a place in organizations and industries for formal, business attire? Does a tie correlate to professionalism?  Leave a comment on this blog about your organization&#8217;s thinking on this.  And your thinking as well?  Do men really get headaches from their tie?  (For heaven&#8217;s sake, loosen it up!) </p>
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<p style="font: normal normal normal 15px/normal Helvetica; margin: 0px">When I was a career coach I always counseled people to dress like the people who hold the jobs they aspire to. I think that is still the best advise.  If you don&#8217;t want to wear a suit and tie select a professional where it isn&#8217;t required.   </p>
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<p style="font: normal normal normal 15px/normal Helvetica; margin: 0px"><strong>For now here is my bottom line.</strong>  </p>
<p style="font: normal normal normal 15px/normal Helvetica; margin: 0px">Studies still show that when developing trust and believability people make snap decision based more on visual than any other aspect  of communication. Visual has a 55% impact. Content only has a 7% impact and voice has 38%. Given that, it is worthwhile for organizations to survey their customers, find out what their expectations and preferences are in terms of dress and then try to fulfill those expectations!  That&#8217;s what will build trust and believability.   </p>
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<p style="font: normal normal normal 15px/normal Helvetica; margin: 0px"><strong>And now let&#8217;s talk about pantyhose! </strong></p>
<p style="font: normal normal normal 15px/normal Helvetica; margin: 0px">Do bare legs diminish the professionalism of women?  Is it unprofessional to go barelegged in the summer?  Do you spray on self tanner so it looks like you have on  hose?  </p>
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